Have you ever heard the saying, "Life is about the journey, not the destination?" That encapsulates what I see as the difference between Doing and Obtaining. Doing is about the journey, and Obtaining is about the destination. In an Obtaining story, the problem might be, "You'll never reach success while your emotions control you," whereas in a Doing story, it might be, "You'll never be good at this until you stop focusing on the result and start focusing on the process." Consider this also: in a Doing story, the Relationship Throughline will be about Being--the roles we play in the world. In an Obtaining story, the Relationship Throughline will be about Becoming--our fundamental nature changing to something new.