It's hard to say given what I know if Memories is the wrong way to go. For instance, nobody is born racist, it must be learned. And when it is learned, it goes into our Memories. [It's hard not to think of Memories as something other than how we experience memories in our conscious -- Haha, it was so funny when Dad got drunk and went into the wrong bedroom, where our guests were staying.]
But, they can be more like pattern recognition: My mother's attitude towards the Latinos in our neighborhood trained me to think of them as inferior. But now, thanks to some catalyst, you bump into Truth and Falsehood. [Oh, man, my dad wasn't staggering around; he was trying to get some action with Mrs. Henry!]
And from there, you can see things like how the economics of your neighborhood kept Latinos in an inferior position, but it had nothing to do with them. There was a built in inequity. [My mother and father had a lopsided marriage, where she demanded things from him, but gave nothing in return. No wonder he sought comfort in Mrs. Henry!]
But, you can do the same kind of thing by going down Contemplation as well.
I just want to point out that the goal is not the element you have chosen. The goal is more human than that -- who doesn't want to feel like an equal partner in their love affairs, just like our errant patriarch?
And, by the way, you already have Equity/Inequity baked into your description. But for the MC, this wouldn't be part of the OS. It would be something like Psychology>Conceptualizing>Circumstances>Inequity: I don't know how to plan things without someone guiding me. I get emotionally turned inside out whenever I try, because I never developed a way to do this on my own, because I was always felt inferior and relied on their greater wisdom.