Relationships and interactions are vehicles transportation systems. No different from physical transportation system.
It's better to call it things like relationboat, partnerboat, Friendboat, stewardboat, fellowboat,
A conversation with a friend about this idea:
Mercy James: 🏿♂ Sam u have sent me to a new dimension of thought surely what kind of boat?
biztechsamuel: We should actually call it a relationboat, a friend boat - not ship for more clarity in our culture here in ug, or call it a friendcanoe, or or a romancecanoe.
Mercy James: 🥳 is it all the above sink @ a moments notice
biztechsamuel: Yes it can sink
biztechsamuel: Friendboats can sink. Leaks can happen. Storms will come. The friendboat can even capsize. Depends on the quality of your boat. Are you using a raft, a cruise ship, a battleship, a spaceship, a wooden ship.
biztechsamuel: Actually a relationship is really a relation-vessel or a relation-vehicle.
biztechsamuel: What kind of vehicle do you currently have? Footsibishi, public vehicle, private ship, rented ship, second hand ship?
Mercy James: But I thought a relationship is a partnership two way street but in terms of the vessel or vehicle they R driven by one person isn't that destined to fail
biztechsamuel: You can exchange turns at the drivers seat. It's a relationboat it's going somewhere or not going anywhere at all.
You can exchange favors but if the exchange is not heading towards a known destination then then the other individual can become dormat.
The relationship or relationtoyota has to travel whether physically or mentally while you exchange for it to be something.
biztechsamuel: Even a partnercanoe has a canoe.
Mercy James: I get U now
biztechsamuel: Sometimes things can be onesided but as long as the boat is sailing with both of them sometimes one person travelling is not an issue.
biztechsamuel: It's fun when the two or you can share the wheels.
Relationcanoes need a direction to work. You need to go on a journey together or you need to be heading to a certain destination.
Look at this, some of the best moments you've had with people is when you've physically travel somewhere together.
The best time to talk to a girl or woo someone could be when you're in a bus going somewhere.
Travel creates freedom.
Or watch a movie together.
Do something progressive with her, play a game, watch something, don't allow for static or a pause to happen.
But yourself in a place of growth or change with her.
biztechsamuel: A relationship is a vehicle, a boat, some kind of traveling thingy that's how you should evaluate your relationships I believe.
Our relationship got an accident.