I could start meditating, go to a therapist to work through my emotions, I could put on a happy face.
Wait! There's a place that will fix this for me? I don't have to deal with my emotions or look inside myself for an answer? I just go there, give them money, and they fix it? Sweet!
I'm going to need money though. I guess I could talk to my wife, put on the charm, maybe cook up a good lie. Nah, I'll just take it and hope it works out.
Ah, now there's someone in my house that I don't know. I could stay calm, I could pretend I'm in control, intimidate the guy or I could grab an ax and swing at the first person I see.
Crap. My clone is better at being me than I am. I could try to be more like him. Or I can knock over his matchstick Eiffel tower and do his presentation better than him to show him who's boss.
Now they're presenting my clones pitch to the town. I can bite my tongue, pretend I like it and be supportive or I can go hide and yell heckles from the crowd.
Miles does both doing and being, but his preference is always to take external action before looking inward for solutions.